Dating Western Women

The nice guy, modern romance and the dating game have taken a massive beating from the western women.

The real cause for this has been an aggressive rise in female independence through feminism. A gentle balance that has existed between men and women for thousands of years is now officially all but finished. And even though often times that balance was tipped more into a man’s favour to be the leader, the bread-winner and have more control of the family unit, it also made sure that humans keep growing, expanding and colonizing.

The family unit was a virtue that sustained the human progress, self-reliance and kept things in order. Families often worked for themselves, on their farms and had enough food and resources to look after themselves. All that was needed to start a family was a traditional young woman and a hardworking and driven young man.

When feminism successfully penetrated the mainstream media, the western culture and western women, the gentle balance between men and women was no more. Today it’s almost hopeless for a successful and charming young man to find a decent young woman who appreciates him, not even mentioning who can be a reliable wife and a good mother for his children.

At the same time I can see some benefits in the earlier stages of feminism, some of which included: getting women to choose how many children they want, whether they should work or not, and if they want to get married or not . Western women are also human beings who should have choice in life. For hard work and innovation, women should be rewarded just like a man should and get paid the same for the amount of work and hours they contribute. Fair is fair.

But this is not what is occurring today.

Today the modern western women have become the most privileged and the most demanding than ever before. The western women want to be managers, CEOs, and have easy access to other high paying positions not because of their vast working experience, education and skills but only BECAUSE they are women. At the same time they scream that men still get paid more for equal jobs, doing equal hours which is false and actually illegal.

These women ignore the fact that men tend to work more dangerous and higher paying jobs, men work longer hours in the office or on construction sites and that men do not take time off work to have children. Men also tend to work more full time, while women enjoy casual jobs that give them flexibility around their personal lives.

And when it comes to divorce courts, men in the United States, Canada, UK, Europe and Australia are put through the meat grinder where they often lose everything (kids and assets) because the judges take the ex-wife’s side in most cases.

And dating these women is not a good option either as they are entitled, narcissistic and never satisfied.

And it’s unlikely that anything will change in the near or distant future. As long as our politicians continue to appease the feminist movements and their politically correct shadow masters, there will be new anti-male laws passed. Single mothers will be praised and paid off with welfare, while the fathers will be stuck paying child support and alimony, a lengthy punishment for starting a family. Women will be perpetually stuck working a mundane day job classified as a “career” that barely pays the bills. Western women’s unhappiness and low levels of satisfaction will only escalate.

The fact of the matter is that there is no woman alive in the west who needs a man. The universities, corporations, media, Hollywood, advertising campaigns and social media have all played their part in convincing women. Not too long ago a young woman had to put effort into her appearance and be of pleasant character to find a decent husband who would help her survive. Today all western women are protected by the governments and a welfare system that makes sure that women never go hungry or become homeless. Even if she gets pregnant and has a baby out of wedlock from a drunken night on the town, the woman will not have to pay for her mistake. And that’s also considering the fact that many countries already offer free birth control for women which further encourages women to make poor choices when selecting men.

To put it bluntly, there is very little left for a man in the Western world as far as meeting a loving woman and raising a family. One should motivate himself to rise up, build a successful business, quit that damn job and go travel the world to see how different and magnificent it can be beyond the Western borders.

Your friend,
Alex

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