Whether you know it or not, WOMEN CHASE MEN. 

But you may be asking what type of men do women chase?

Most women (unlike teenage girls) are going to chase after a SELF-MADE MAN who’s got HIGH value. The term “high value” doesn’t automatically mean that the man has the best job or the best looks. It means that this man is charismatic, well-off financially and he can make those people around him feel comfortable and good about themselves.

It also shows that this man VALUES HIMSELF by being someone who other people gravitate towards.

His sheer presence makes people feel ALIVE, his stories and the way he tells them are CONTAGIOUS. He is in high demand by women as well as his male friends. At the same time this man knows his true value and he doesn’t throw his time and attention around like it’s cheap.  

STOP CHASING WOMEN!

Even if you are a shy and unpopular guy, and possess none of the above features, here is how you can transform your character traits to start becoming a high-value man.

High-Value Rule #1: You ALWAYS Come First

This rule is important as you need to ALWAYS PUT YOURSELF FIRST in your life.

This means before you can have a great lifestyle, you need to address all the important priorities in order.

Before anything else, concentrate on your OWN BUSINESS, WORK or CAREER. You can also do both, work a day job while you are building your own business. You may have seen me promote having your own online business, and it’s for a good reason.

The next stage is you must devote a good amount of free time to your hobbies. This is what makes you a UNIQUE and INTERESTING character. It sets you aside from everyone else.

When you are immersed within building your own lifestyle, you are demonstrating that you value yourself and that YOUR TIME IS VALUABLE.

In contrast, if you have nothing better to do, you will be leaching time and energy off other people which shows that you have very little going in your life.

In fact, this makes you a LOSER.

Stop chasing women.

High-Value Rule #2: Your Time is Precious

There is a FINITE amount of hours each day.

You have LIMITED amount of time to spend on your work and hobbies and furthermore, you have almost NO TIME TO WASTE on other human beings.

This means that prioritizing your time is critical to becoming a high-value man.

You must always spend the bulk of your time on YOUR WORK and whatever little amount of time is left at the end of the day on personal interests. You also must select carefully with what other people you spend your time with.

The older you get, (especially after 35) the less you want to waste time on being around those people that SUCK YOUR ENERGY AND TIME.

It’s not your obligation to see your friends every weekend, neither should you be dating any random girl that happens to pay you attention.

In my younger years, I felt the need to constantly be surrounded by friends and girls.

Today being in my late 30s, I thrive when I am being a lone-wolf. I have time and space TO DO WHAT I WANT. Gone are the days when I would waste Friday and Saturday nights playing computer games or watching movies, now I feel much happier and content building my website and working on my business.

I DERIVE PLEASURE FROM IT!

I often have to turn my friends down because of this but I NEVER feel guilty about it. Your time is the MOST IMPORTANT ASSET that you have.

Once it’s gone, you can never get it back.   

High-Value Rule #3: Walk Away

Walk away can mean two things, either taking a break from something or quitting something or someone, for good.

You should NEVER be scared to walk away from something or someone.

By walking away, you demonstrate that your time and energy are valuable.

If you walk away from a bad job, I shows that you can find a better and easier way of making money.

If you walk away from a BAD GIRLFRIEND, it shows that you are content and happy being single and being a lone-wolf.

In contrast, by showing a non-stop devotion for something you despise, highlights the fact that you are a wimp and a loser.

“If you don’t make up your mind, somebody else will do it for you”.

In conclusion, I want you all to STOP CHASING WOMEN because women are the ones who are trying to impress us men.

Have you looked at the beauty industry lately? It’s all being marketed to women, young and old.

A fit and healthy, MASCULINE MAN looks great in a pair of jeans and a nice shirt, whereas there are endless fashion items for women.

Let me say that again, women are constantly trying to impress us men, so why not just go about your business, and admire women going out of their mind, spending every last of their income on fancy shoes, makeup and acrylic nails.

When you re-frame it like that, you will become a HIGH-VALUE MAN.

The most repulsive thing a man can do is chase women and give away his precious time for free.

Let women work hard to get your attention and then you should still work on your business and career, because they are the fundamentals that make a man high-value.

STOP CHASING WOMEN NOW

You friend,

Alex

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